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timj219 07:39 PM 02-14-2013
I can't believe this never occurred to me but I just realized something today.
Most of the year when I want a cigar I go outside and have one. But when it's too bad outside to have a cigar (like windy and 5°) I end up reading about cigars and looking at online vendors who sell cigars. Well we all know what that kind of behavior leads to. A few days after my cigar deprivation the next assortment of "must try" cigars arrives at my door and she gives me a funny look.

I do have a point here (I think). If I could always have a cigar no matter the weather, then I would buy less cigars and we could afford better pillow shams or window treatments or whatever it is women like.

What do you think? Does this argument sound plausible?
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big_jaygee 07:53 PM 02-14-2013
Originally Posted by timj219:
What do you think? Does this argument sound plausible?
sounds good to me :-) .... of course it sounds like the same argument i would use as well :-)
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cmitch 08:15 PM 02-14-2013
Working on mine in the basement now. I hope it's finished by the end of March. My wife is 100% on board with it.
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dragnframe 08:31 PM 02-14-2013
What are you guys useing for ventalation?(spelling) If you can explain to her that you will good ventalation she might be on board.
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hazydat620 08:34 PM 02-14-2013
Don't ask, just do.
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omowasu 08:44 PM 02-14-2013
Originally Posted by timj219:
I do have a point here (I think). If I could always have a cigar no matter the weather, then I would buy less cigars and we could afford better pillow shams or window treatments or whatever it is women like.

What do you think? Does this argument sound plausible?
Its the wife, you are supposed to TELL her want you are going to do, not ASK! ha ha ha :-)


Originally Posted by dragnframe:
What are you guys useing for ventalation?(spelling) If you can explain to her that you will good ventalation she might be on board.
For my lounge I used two bathroom fans at 100CFM each on separate switches, they work great, but my lounge is on the 1st floor! If you are building into a basement, you would need a room that does not allow any smoke to pass from the basement to the 1st floor through the basement ceiling (and it will happen unless that ceiling is airtight, e.g. no can lights, no ceiling exhaust fans, etc). For a basement I would do two exhaust fans mounted into the wall with a 4" exit through the sill plate. I would also add a HEPA filter that you can leave on when you leave the room.
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yourchoice 08:47 PM 02-14-2013
Whatever you decide, I would suggest not bringing it up today...Valentine's Day! :-)
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Remo 09:27 PM 02-14-2013
Tell her it's better than you going to a cigar lounge where there are hot drunk chicks!! I bet she helps you build it!!
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big_jaygee 09:31 PM 02-14-2013
Originally Posted by Remo:
Tell her it's better than you going to a cigar lounge where there are hot drunk chicks!! I bet she helps you build it!!
hahahaha thats a great idea as well :-) :-)
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Subvet642 06:13 AM 02-15-2013
Originally Posted by hazydat620:
Don't ask, just do.
:-)
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DBall 07:11 AM 02-15-2013
Sounds plausible to me... I'll take a ride down there and help you break it in! :-)
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smokin5 08:27 AM 02-15-2013
Explain to her that if you were inside instead of outside while smoking,
you'd be able to spend more 'quality time' with her, discussing pillow
shams & drapes & whatnot.

Then again, maybe it's better you stay outside & avoid such talk. :-)
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cmitch 09:27 AM 02-15-2013
Originally Posted by dragnframe:
What are you guys useing for ventalation?(spelling) If you can explain to her that you will good ventalation she might be on board.
I'm using TWO Rabbit airs and a 350 CFM+ Bathroom vent for a 17 x 15 room. I think it should be sufficient.
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The Poet 10:14 AM 02-15-2013
I don't see why you bothered to ask her opinion, or what the potential problem could be . . . as long as you put a hide-a-bed couch down there.
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dc_glidden 11:56 AM 02-15-2013
It is much easier to beg for forgiveness than it is to ask for permission :-)

I myself smoke in the garage, but living in Southern California, my worst temps even in the garage hit 50 degrees, then If I want it warmer, I just plug the electric space heater 15 minutes before I have the morning stick.

As for basement smoking, I wish I still lived in a state ( born and raised in Rochester NY ) with a basement, being in the HVAC business most my life, it be set up with an exhaust fan with fresh air intake for circulation.
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mosesbotbol 11:59 AM 02-15-2013
It's your house and I assume you pay all or at least half the mortgage; you should be able to do as you wish in your home...
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kelmac07 12:02 PM 02-15-2013
I wish I had a basement. Water table is too high in this area...noone has basements.
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timj219 12:20 PM 02-15-2013
Well I'm going to use the "savings" argument as part of my pitch and see how it goes. In the end I think we'll end up compromising and I'll enclose part of the back deck. As far as telling instead of asking or doing what I like because I pay the bills, I realize those suggestions were probably half in jest but I couldn't live with a woman who didn't expect decisions like this to be made cooperatively. And I'd rather smoke outside, give up a few bad weather days or weeks of smoking, if it means coming back in to a happy wife.
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The Poet 12:24 PM 02-15-2013
Originally Posted by kelmac07:
I wish I had a basement. Water table is too high in this area...noone has basements.
Just put one on the top floor, Mac, and call it a basement! Who's to know, or care? :-)

And, you can easily buy an attic fan, but just try going to Lowe's and asking for a basement one. :-)
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Remo 01:23 PM 02-15-2013
Originally Posted by timj219:
And I'd rather smoke outside, give up a few bad weather days or weeks of smoking, if it means coming back in to a happy wife.
Smart man! Happy wife = happy life :-)
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