Originally Posted by Blueface:
Thanks to you and all others who have posted kind words.
I can't change who I am overnight as much as may think I may want to. As such, there are more "Carlos helping out neighbors" events to come. I genuinely enjoy it as they are projects to me that challenge me. I just won't trip over the same rock.:-)
BTW, this place and all the generous people that are part of it consoles me when I lose faith in the world. The world is full of plenty of good people. Unfortunately, there are plenty of not so good also that taint the good ones by leaving a bad taste.
That said, I don't think I could have picked a better title for the thread as people will never cease to amaze me. That goes for the bad as much as it goes for the good.
Well said my friend.
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Martin 12:51 PM 03-08-2009
What type of world would we live in if we ALL acted like you.
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lightning9191 12:54 PM 03-08-2009
Originally Posted by replicant_argent:
And yet, still.... despite his neighbors screams of "CARLOS!!!!! I DO NOT WANT YOU TRIMMING MY WIFES BUSH AGAIN!"
or
"CARLOS, THAT HEDGE ISN'T SUPPOSED TO LOOK LIKE AN ORGAN!!"
he continues his quest for lanscaping infamy.
:-):-)
Maybe you should trim their bushes in the shapes of organs....they'd probably stop asking for you help
:-)
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ChasDen 12:59 PM 03-08-2009
Originally Posted by ggainey:
This sense of entitlement you speak of is 97.2% of the reason we are where we are at in this country today, I am with ya.
I deal with the general public daily and I think its higher that 97.2%. It truly amazes me that people feel they are entitled to or its their right to "fill in the blank". Not to thread jack but last week we were at a customers house, a seemingly intelligent man and woman, and listened to them spout on the whole time we were there how they cant wait for "this president and his congress" to make things right. They used phrases like" fixing the rich", "redistributing everyone's money" and the one that made me puke a little in my mouth "its everyone's right to have as much money as the rich". They argued with the $1500 bill claiming a $6 dollar item on it was suppose to be free
:-)
I feel your pain
:-)
Chas
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Originally Posted by ashtonlady:
Have you asked his wife? He may not know if he has any money, but I bet she does.
:-):-):-)
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Originally Posted by ChasDen:
I deal with the general public daily and I think its higher that 97.2%. It truly amazes me that people feel they are entitled to or its their right to "fill in the blank". Not to thread jack but last week we were at a customers house, a seemingly intelligent man and woman, and listened to them spout on the whole time we were there how they cant wait for "this president and his congress" to make things right. They used phrases like" fixing the rich", "redistributing everyone's money" and the one that made me puke a little in my mouth "its everyone's right to have as much money as the rich". They argued with the $1500 bill claiming a $6 dollar item on it was suppose to be free :-)
I feel your pain :-)
Chas
That about says it all Chas.
:-)
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icehog3 02:15 PM 03-08-2009
If he hasn't paid you by the time I come down for the snkbyt Herf, I will dig it up and hand it to him in 40 pieces, Carlos.
:-)
You are a good man, and nobody can take that away from you....your Mother and Father raised a good man.
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Made in Dade 04:42 PM 03-08-2009
Carlos, hearing stories like this really bothers me. Reminds me of a similar situation with our neighbor and my father. He should be kissing your A$$ for helping him.
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Blueface 04:53 PM 03-08-2009
Originally Posted by Made in Dade:
He should be kissing your A$$ for helping him.
Mikey,
I don't know about that.
Heck, can't even get my wife to do that.
:-)
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Made in Dade 05:00 PM 03-08-2009
Originally Posted by Blueface:
Mikey,
I don't know about that.
Heck, can't even get my wife to do that.:-)
:-):-):-)
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dunng 05:56 PM 03-08-2009
Send him a bill for your labor and parts...
:-)
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Sailkat 06:32 PM 03-08-2009
Originally Posted by Martin:
What type of world would we live in if we ALL acted like you.
It would be a pretty great place if we all looked out for each other.
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tnip23 07:31 PM 03-08-2009
Honestly Carlos the karmic payback to you is probably all backed up for all the good you do. It will come your way, as it will for the inconsiderate neighbor. I know I don't need to say this, but keep doing all the good you do.
:-)
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Barteur 08:18 PM 03-08-2009
People are incredible
:-)
Reading this hole story, now I know why I live downtown in the city in a condo. My neigbourgh is 10 feet from me and I don`t even know what he looks like.
You should go back to him take the material you bought and take it back to Home Depot and get a refund, then charge as a consultant 150$hr to repair his system
:-)
Frenchie
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rizzle 09:58 AM 03-09-2009
it will come back at you somehow Carlos. Worst case scenario in self-satisfaction. Keep on keeping on bro.
:-)
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tunes 10:52 AM 03-09-2009
Originally Posted by Blueface:
I trim freaking neighbor's hedges/trees with my chainsaw, I help them fix things all the time and man, I just realized, no one has ever done crap for me. I can't change my way of being overnight but tell you what, the guard is up.
I too have been down this road and with the exception of a few I no longer offer my services. I was the neighborhood go to guy, Mr. Fix-it so to speak. But as more and more requests were made, fewer slaps on the backs and Thanks were being given in return, as if it was expected. I now find I have more time to relax and smoke my 'gars.
:-)
Sorry - didn't mean to thread jack...
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shilala 11:07 AM 03-09-2009
I used to get tired by the same thing all the time, Carlos.
I'd get just as upset as you, too, if not moreso.
I just changed my angle. I do whatever I can whenever I can for anyone I can. I just do it because I can and don't want or expect anything in return. I consider it a gift.
That way, no matter what happens, I'm not going to get upset.
I'm rewarded every day by the help of others, and the Grace of God.
Turns out I'm WAY ahead of the game, and I need to give a lot more back.
So I just keep on trying.
:-)
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King James 11:12 AM 03-09-2009
that sucks Carlos. I hope he at least said thank you
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hotreds 11:19 AM 03-09-2009
The guy is a puto, pure and simple. But, I'm optimistic that more people than not are grateful for your- or anyone's- help.
Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Luke 6:38
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mrreindeer 11:19 AM 03-09-2009
Originally Posted by BigFrank:
Pretty lame to be honest.
:-) Sorry to hear this Carlos; some people just suck.
Originally Posted by replicant_argent:
And yet, still.... despite his neighbors screams of "CARLOS!!!!! I DO NOT WANT YOU TRIMMING MY WIFES BUSH AGAIN!"
or
"CARLOS, THAT HEDGE ISN'T SUPPOSED TO LOOK LIKE AN ORGAN!!"
he continues his quest for lanscaping infamy.
:-):-)
Originally Posted by ggainey:
This sense of entitlement you speak of is 97.2% of the reason we are where we are at in this country today, I am with ya.
:-):-)
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